dave1949
Super Star Member
Dave1949, THANK YOU for your jury experience and for sharing the story with us....it always makes me sad that a court has to intervene with domestic issues that should have and could have been settled by the parties involved...so many court cases seem to happen because people are not willing to work things out and want to air dirty laundry in public. But...my opinion is biased...I don't know the entire story, I don't know either plaintiff or defendant, I don't know a lot of things about the case...and even those who served on the jury like yourself cannot know themselves...so many factors involved and it must be hard to make a rational decision...I truthfully admire those who can deal with it day in and day out....
Enough babble....was out on my tractor about 3 pm and saw a really severe storm heading toward me, put up a pic on Facebook and said "TAKE COVER EVERYBODY...." the sky here to the west is always open and visible so severe weather is easy to see when it heads this way...rain came down in torrents again, about 1 1/2" in ten minutes. Going to sit down and shut up for a while...LIFE IS GOOD !!!
So true Bill. By design, there is a lot the jury never knows about. It is a shame people can't settle these things themselves, and they could if they were normally functioning people I guess. This case included a history of several physical altercations between the young man and the girl's mother, and also with her step-father of 20 years. Even learning what little we jury heard, the whole thing is enough to make a soap opera writer blush. Somehow, somewhere society needs to draw a line. Perhaps physical violence is that line in the sand.
One factor that weighed heavily in my mind was the fact that the young man could have walked away at anytime with no repercussions or burden. He is not the father of the children, he and girl were not married. So, why was he still there if she made him angry enough to incite violence? I tended to think it was because she was someone weak and immature that he could control and terrorize/bully. Domestic violence is a strange beast.