we all wish we could carry a little of your load so as to lighten it Buppies
make the best of your good days
I thought marrying a nurse was a great idea for many reasons.
Turns out I wound up being the caregiver for many years.
Last two years was 200 days in hospital.
I started on TBN as a way to kill time sitting in that hospital chair
I could dream of a new Kubota.
at one point after the umpteenth operation, my wife looked up at me and said
honey I think it's time you got your new tractor.
and I did and many of you remember I had a little heart painted on rear window with
her name in it.
so sometimes it's us guys taking care of the wives, not other way around.
I got serious caregiver PTSD and had to escape to NC.
Worrying for too long is the part that gets you weary.
The what next thoughts you can't avoid.
the stress from which doesn't help Buppie's own health.
so perhaps at least mentally we will try to lighten Buppies load
having someone to talk to is really important.