Really cool read. Love the story! I am a dog guy, as I bet a lot here are.
What I find funny is some of your descriptions and likeness to domestic dogs that suggests that there are for sure still wild traits in your Yote, yet there are many things about your yote that remind me of my Angel. Angel is what I call a free range dog, I'm not one for teaching tricks or dominating a dog. Angel lives as she wants, always has. If she wants in the house, she comes in. If she wants out, we open the door and she leaves to do whatever she does. She is barely able to be on a leash, if leashed, she pulls until she nearly gags herself unconscious. A leash is a very rare event and is somewhat traumatic for her. It sounds like your yote hated the lease in similar fashion. Angel knows her name and knows a handful of common 1 word commands such as UP, BALL, SLEEP, FOOD, EASY, DOWN and a few more. But one thing about a free range dog is that they do not COME, STAY or pretty much do anything that is not of their current desire. Angel will come when she dang well pleases, and not a moment sooner. I bet Angel would have gotten along famously with your yote! They could have laughed together at the idiot humans trying to yell out ignored commands!
Had I been in your situation, I really feel that I would tried hard to keep that yote around as a free dog and let it live with us in whatever way it desired. If wanted in to sleep on the bed, fine. If it wanted out to disappear into the woods for hours, fine. Angel does it that way, she controls her life for the most part. We feed her, love her and let her do her thing.
Maybe the big difference between a truly wild dog and an unstructured domestic dog like mine is that if ANYONE goes outside and Angel is within earshot, she will come and be around. She is typically always within a couple hundred feet of me when I am out, she likes to lay half asleep and watch me working from under some shaded brush or a tree. And another difference may be that my domestic dog does often annoy me for physical attention. She will come to me or my wife and insist that she get rubbed, I suppose your wild dog put on more distance as it matured.
My dog is constant barker as well when she out making her security rounds, we have just under 15 acres that adjoin just over 2000 acres, and she pretty much knows our property area and the limits of it. She runs that property line many times a day and often at night, my suspicion is that she patrols what she feels is her domain and pushes back any wildlife that may want to try and come here. We do not have to worry about coons, rabbits or any other rodents because she kills them all if they are discovered.
I really would love to get a chance to experience some of the things that you were able to. Man, you sure had one **** of a unique chance to learn there, and it sounds as if you really did make the most of it!
Awesome!