Does your 3pt cylinder work now? It looks like a nice clean rebuild you've done.
There are also two O rings easily accessed in the drop rate control - which is usually a knob under the front of the seat. That drop speed control is usually the culprit when a 3pt hitch will not stay up. It is simply a valve that controls the rate at which fluid leaves the 3pt lift cylinder.
Hope you can find parts. All of those older tractors were designed with the expectation of parts always being available, and that the tractors would then last forever. That was great for owners, but.....
Then the manufacturers all realized that if they continued down that path they would end up either being forced to improve and innovate or they would simply be putting themselves out of business. And innovation is a gamble.