NorTracNY
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Grief is just Love persisting beyond death
We had a cat do that this fall. He was a stray that showed up at our house in SC two weeks before we moved; all beat to h3ll and scrawny. We named him Harlan and brought him to VA with us. 8 1/2 years and whoosh... we let him out one night and never have seen him again. Man... he was a good cat.My 16 yr old cat JJ was getting older didnt see so well, slept a lot more, always went in and out the doggie door. Had a crew to put on a new roof and she ran away July29 0f last year. printed 100 fliers ,we live in the country with half mile driveway from paved rd. put fliers out for miles. Nothing no neighbor sighting , just vanished. whatever it was i hope it was quick for her. I have joked that i would rather wife ran off than the cat. Havent been able to cry ,even though im sure she is not coming home.Damn , I miss her. Sorry for all who have lost a pet, Have own graveyard with multiple cats n dogs buried, all their tags are on a big ring on the front doorknob,all but JJs, every time the doggie door makes a noise i look for her,but it is always one of the other ones.
He probably was trying to go back home to SC.We had a cat do that this fall. He was a stray that showed up at our house in SC two weeks before we moved; all beat to h3ll and scrawny. We named him Harlan and brought him to VA with us. 8 1/2 years and whoosh... we let him out one night and never have seen him again. Man... he was a good cat.
Last spring my very young Cocker Spaniel chased a small group of turkeys. Around the bend he went - I heard a great commotion - back he came in rapid retreat. He learned a lesson.