Discussed before - Outcome of feuding neighbors

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Here is the final chapter in the sad ending of a "feud" neighbors had over a fiveteen year period. Interesting to note the cultures involved in a changing rural landscape. This story touches many a note and many questions that TBNers have had over the years.

I feel sad for everyone involved. May they all find a way to peace and comfort, and move forward.

-Mike Z.

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   / Discussed before - Outcome of feuding neighbors #2  
It sure is sad when something like this happens. The folks you linked to had been at it for several years. It's even harder when you know the folks that got the bad end of the deal too.

Here's one from my area. I kept this on file and it doesn't seem that far back but time does fly. This family was and still is missed greatly. Hard working folks. Mr. Stanley Cole was a cattle buyer. Had friends and customers all over this county as well as several others. Hard to imagine what a fence, driveway or property line does to some people. It just isn't worth it.

I raise cattle on this farm. No one else has cattle that joins my property. When I decided to fence in all the open land I didn't run any of the fence on the lines. Some I even backed off 20 feet. Like I said it isn't worth it in the end.

07/08/2002

"We Never Thought It Would Come To This"
Police Arrest James Bryant Hudson One Day After Murders; Friends Of Slain Family Members Say Suspect Was "Mean"

After combing the community and the county at large Halifax County deputies arrested 55 year old James Bryant Hudson Thursday afternoon around 4 p.m. and charged him with seven counts, including the murder of three family members.

Hudson was charged with killing the three — 64 year old Thomas Wesley Cole and his wife, 64 year old Patsy Ayers Cole of 3228 Virgie Cole Road and 56 year old Walter Stanley Cole of 4012 Virgie Cole Road. All three were killed by shotgun blasts from close range with the two brothers being killed in a private driveway and Patsy Cole being shot in a nearby garden.

Hudson, whose address is listed as 4034 Virgie Cole Road, has been charged with the murder of all three people, and with three counts of the use of a firearm in the commission of a felony. He has also been charged with the murder of Wesley and Stanley Cole as part of the same act which means that he will be tried for capital murder.

A witness said Wesley Cole was the first of the three to be shot with Stanley Cole next, followed by the shooting of Patsy Cole.

Immediately following the 5 p.m. shooting Wednesday, law enforcement officers put out an all points bulletin in search of a 1986 red and white Dodge pick-up truck belonging to Hudson, but it was not until some 23 hours later that deputies saw him driving the truck on North Fork Church Road. They were able to stop Hudson, and he was arrested without incident.

Hudson's truck was impounded and among the contents of the truck listed were a .38 caliber revolver, a Browning automatic shotgun, a knife, a box of bullets, a holster, a cartridge from a revolver, several spent shells and other things.

Neighbors and friends said they were in shock over the incident. They described the Coles as "wonderful friends and neighbors" who had lived in the community all their lives. Others were not so enamored with Hudson, whom several described as being "mean" and apparently envious of his neighbors. "When someone is as mean spirited as he was, how do you classify that?" one asked rhetorically. "But we never thought it would come to this," he said.

There apparently had been some long-standing conflict between Stanley Cole and Hudson about the right of way of a driveway leading to Hudson's home which was about one-half mile off the roadway. But some neighbors said there was more to the problem than the driveway issue although they did not elaborate on their statement.

Funeral services for all three victims are set for today at Shady Grove United Church — at 10 a.m. for Stanley Cole and at 2 p.m. for Wesley and Patsy Cole.
 
   / Discussed before - Outcome of feuding neighbors #3  
Any law that requires neighbors to pay for fences they don't want is a ridiculous law. Any neighbor that takes advantage of such a rule would have a tremendous amount of trouble from me if I was one of those neighbors. I won't mention what we call that sort of thing around here, but the initials are C.S.
 
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The law in that part of the commonwealth has since been changed. It was my understanding it originally dated back to the late 1700's or early 1800's.

Makes you wonder how the gentleman found out about it to begin with.

You ever try reading 1800's deed books?

-Mike Z. /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif
 
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</font><font color="blue" class="small">( Makes you wonder how the gentleman found out about it to begin with.
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Gentleman?? He is a lawyer, don't believe gentleman would be a term I'd use to describe him. I would presume he found out about it due to his profession.

A law like that, even dating way back makes me wonder WHY. No matter that time period, that could sure be a burden on any neighboring property owner.
 
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I have to agree. It's one thing to ask you neighbors to participate, especially if the fence would be mututally beneficial, but to "inform" them and then bill them seems wrong. He definitely was taking advantage. No wonder the old coot was needling him. But, as these things often do, it got out of hand............

I understand the point of the fence, protecting his prize herd, and I underrstand how pissed he was when the neighbor's diseased bull got into his herd - I'd be pretty upset about that too. Seems like there had to be a better way tho...............
 
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Using the law to bill neighboring land owners for the fence is a bit iffy in my book. Unless the fence helped out the neighbor. Even then its iffy. I'm glad the law was changed.

Impounding the bull is what you do in NC. I had a neighbor who owned sheep. He was a lawyer. He did not fence in the sheep and they would get out and eat peoples landscaping. Went on for quite some time. One neighbor called up animal control and they said to pen in the animal and they would come and get it which they did. The notificed the owner and he was charged for each day the sheep was kept by the county. Can't remember how much it cost per day but it was not much. But it was enough that the idiot fenced in his sheep. /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif I actually heard the lawyer state in a homeowners meeting that the sheep where not his. His sheep where the only ones around for miles. I guess UFO's where dropping them off at the neighbors....

What happened in the link is a shame. Seems like both of them went out each other. Seems like the lawyer was more right than wrong though at least from the article.

Later,
Dan
 
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If you have the patience to read the entire page, you will see that Connecticut still has fence laws like this and they can be difficult to administer. They even give the administration of disputes over to the town Selectman along with a formula as to how they get paid. That alone is reason enough not to run for public office in a small town... /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif

GENERAL STATUTES OF CONNECTICUT - TITLE 47. LAND AND LAND TITLES CHAPTER 823. FENCES
 
   / Discussed before - Outcome of feuding neighbors #9  
Brooks went onto Ames property without Ames permission,

Brooks then "came after" Ames with a "weapon".

Do not bring a knife to a gunfight.

Anyone trained in firearms will shoot more than one round into intended target.

A human being may live sometime after hit with one "round" with a "pistol" cartridge.

"When in doubt, empty the magazine" so to speak.

Ames should of done things "differently".

His mistake. He's gone.
 
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Sig,

I disagree with your post. Killing a 74 year old man armed with a stick is pretty low ; no, its down right nauseating. The defendent half unloaded a 9 mm clip into an elderly man. True the elderly fellow was trespassing but dont you think there might be a less lethal way to approach this problem? I believe Ames knew the old man would be over that day to get his bull. He waited for him and killed him. I hope the widow collects 10,045,000. 10 million for killing the old man and 45,000 for the fence.

Sad story no matter how you look at it.
 

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