You would be amazed what a difference even a small homeowner plate compactor and a good soaking of water will do after grading new crushed rock. Very sandy here and unless it's compacted next hard rain it's in the ditch and woods. Bought a cheap harbor freight compactor 10 years ago for a project. Have used it at many neighbor's rerocking. No washouts and hard as concrete if good crushed rock graded, watered and compacted. Water runs off instead of eroding.
I've been looking for an excuse to buy a plate compactor for a couple small projects but figured it would be too tough to maneuver up and down the slope of the road. I suppose I could just compact downhill and bring in back up the slope with the TLB or some such.
The HF is certainly price attractive but I'm hesitant due to reliability concerns. You seem to think well of it though.
Most of the mix I've gotten is damp, and packs pretty well, to fill ruts and holes, even just driving over it with the TLB and floating the bucket on it. Though it does seem to form vehicle tracks sooner than I think it should.