I tend to loan out my stuff freely to buddies I can trust not to hurt themselves or sue me. There is a price to be paid, though. There is always wear and tear. It always seems like you need what they borrowed 2 hours after you gave it to them. Nobody ever gets projects done when they think/say they are going to, so it always takes longer to get it back.
Being nice always has a price - if it didn't there wouldn't be much of a sacrifice involved, would there? However, it makes me feel good to be able to help my buddies out so I am happy to do it.
Some of my buddies are most excellent at returning things promptly, clean, and without any hassle to me.
Those same buddies loan stuff back to me without a thought because they know that I would always do the same.
Although I am not a stickler for keeping my own tools spit polished, (I do maintain them, but the the oil inside is always cleaner than the outside). However when I borrow something, it always goes back cleaner, n better shape than when I got it. If it gets damaged, it gets fixed or replaced. I don't just offer to pay for the repairs, I take it in, order the parts, whatever. Why would one add inconvenience to the insult of returning a broken tool by having the owner have to spend their own time to fix it?
Blades, bits, fuel, and other consumables are always returned sharper, newer or fuler than what was on the tool when I got it, often with an upgraded brand or quality.
When borrowing, if the owner asks about it or reminds me that I still have it, etc , I load it up and take it back to them immediately even if I am still in need of it or its not really convenient for me to drive over - I would hate to make the owner have to come and get it!
However, unprompted, I am afraid to admit that I am one of those borrowers that tends to sit on things until prompted. Something I need to work on.
Regarding my tractor I have only loaned implements so far - mostly because I don't have a large enough trailer to easily transport it. Has not been an issue of any significance.
I have loaned out my utility trailer on numerous occasions. I have a bit of a liability concern on that one because the deck is kind of rotting out and somebody might put their foot through a soft spot - I guess I should get it fixed before somebody else needs it again.
I have loaned my pickup truck on a few occasions as well. Mostly back when I was single to some woman I was dating (or their rommate) who had to pick up some furniture they bought or something. All my guy buddies of course already have trucks of their own!
- Rick