So the FAT hose connectors on the FEL arms are the MAIN PTO. These are for things like the mower, brush cutter, etc... things with hydraulic motors that spin fast. They are operated by the PTO switch on the dash.
The SMALL hose connectors on the FEL arms are the AUX PTO connections. They are operated by the lever by your right knee under the joystick. They are usually used to open and close the Quick Attach.
For things like the grapple, power angle snow blade, etc... you first pick up the implement and lock it in place with the quick attach, then remove the quick attach cylinder hoses from those small connectors on the FEL arms and let them hang. You'd then connect the small hoses for the grapple, power angle snow blade, etc... to those small connectors on the FEL arm.
Now, the lever by your right knew controls the grapple or the angle of the plow.
When you're done, remove them in reverse order, reconnect the Quick Attach hoses, and you can then unlock and drop the implement off of the FEL arms.
Make sense?
Got it! Yay!! Makes plenty of sense to me now. LOL