X2 Try living somewhere that has unreliable power and you realize very quickly that gas stations are effectively dead in the water when the power goes out as so few of them have backup power.
There is a great deal of misinformation around on batteries, but as a general rule, don't do deep discharges to close to zero, and try not to charge all the way to 100%. With battery monitoring circuits, most of this goes on behind the scenes. Both of my hybrids from two different manufacturers have "Empty" set to be around 5%, and "Full" set to somewhere around 95%. The whole house batteries turn themselves off at 5%.
Many EV battery systems have cell level monitoring, and the ability to equalize the state of charge amongst all the cells in the pack for better longevity.
My bottom line: it is in the interest of vehicle manufacturers to have the whole charging process as painless as possible, and with modern electronics, I think it is.
I can't speak for other places, but there are many apartment complexes and businesses around here with EV chargers. I worked at one site that put in two charging spots that were promptly used all day by a series of vehicles. That expanded to four, and then to eight, and then had a solar roof put on the parking garage...you get the idea.
For me the big difference between the EVs and my ICE vehicles, is that I almost always refuel the EVs at home, and in normal usage, that's all I need. In times of emergency (that's the thread, right?) I can actually refuel at home, and I'm not dependent on grid power, or oil pipelines to get fuel. Both of which are likely to be in deep doodoo in my area after a big quake, which is our one of our most likely emergencies (followed by fire).
All in all, I think it is "horses for courses"; driving a '78 bronco at 80 probably isn't comfortable (never done that, but I have driven similar vintage vehicles quickly, and comfort didn't come to mind), and taking a Lamborghini four wheeling is asking for trouble. EVs may not work for everyone's use case, but my$0.02 is try it, you might be surprised. The old adage about walking a mile in someone else's shoes comes to mind...
All the best,
Peter