I am not convinced that running high rpms during the regen process has any impact on the process. The DPF system uses a burner, fueled by the tractor's diesel supply, to burn off the collected soot. I do not see how higher rpms can create enough heat that would significantly raise the temp of the burner process. I have over 1300 hours on my 2016 XG3037 and have had zero issues with the regen process and I usually regen at 1800 rpms. It regens every 5 hours as it should.
My dealer was very specific about how to care for the regen process:
1. Use a diesel additive with every tankful of diesel.
2. Change the small inline pre-fuel filter regularly . Water is very destructive to the DPF system.
3. Buy diesel fuel from a high volume station for the freshest fuel.
I have followed his advice faithfully and have had zero regen issues.
I hope you are able to figure out what is causing your regen issues. Sounds like it may be a sensor or burner issue. Keep us posted.