JJ
If I understand you right, you plumbed the input to the new valve from the pressure port of the flange, and the output of the PB, to the return on the flange, and the return from the new valve to the return line to tank.
this is not how it is plumbed - I only have 2 lines going to the loader valve. 1 from the flange to the valve and 1 returning to the flange(not from the PB)
We might be talking in circles here, but just because your old valve had a PB port, does not mean one has to use it, and if you chose not to use it, then you would route the return to the flange port to feed the 3pt. In that situation, the PB port would be plugged. So in this situation, you said you had to use both valves to get the FEL to operate better. When you use the 3pt, you are adding the 3pt cyl in the circuit, and when the cyl is fully extended, the pressure is realized through the complete hyd circuit. If in this circumstance, the FEL valve seems to work better, that means that the FEL valve is leaking, when only using the FEL valve.
If your old valve only had an input and a return port, then the pressure line goes to the FEL valve, and the return port is connected back to the flange port to feed the 3pt.
Using the new valve with PB installed, the pressure port on the flange goes to the FEL input, and the PB out goes back to the flange to feed the 3pt. The return port now, only dumps the fluid used by the FEL cylinders, and returns that unpressurized fluid back to the sump/reservoir.
Have you installed the new valve ? Have you set the relief valve pressure. If the circuit is testing out with the correct pressure, then using the FEL valve should give you all the pressure the pump can produce.