My YM240 has a loader that I think was dealer-installed when new. It acts something like you described.
There are various combinations of loader motion and 3-point operation that interact. This is logical since they are plumbed in series.
In particular leaving the loader in 'float' while driving with something heavy on the 3-point will cause an empty bucket to raise. What is happening is the 3 point piston is bleeding down pushing fluid through the open float position in the loader's controller. The pump will usually keep up with it so the rear implement doesn't drop. I have encountered this several times when I wanted to back-drag to fill in and level an excavation. I'm looking to the rear as I back up, expecting to drag the bucket over the rough ground to level it. Instead I stop when I hear a crunch, look forward, and see I've snagged a limb of an orchard tree with the fully raised bucket. The loader control is still in float position.
The only way to have float available with the backhoe installed is to close the valve under the front of the seat so the 3-point's return path is choked off.
I think the slow speed you see is limited by the relatively small pump. (My YM240 was apparently ordered loader-ready, with an optional hd front axle and apparently the optional pump). When you see faster motion on the loader, that is probably the 3-point descending and adding its volume to the pump's volume.
Not a bug, just a feature.
Added, after thinking about this some more:
The bucket moves up and down slowly until you engage the 3 point hitch control in the same direction as you want the bucket to go.
Mine doesn't do that. If both are engaged in the same direction, whichever one has less load moves while the other stalls or descends. It feels like engaging a second simultaneous motion causes a huge leak in the circuit that is feeding the first motion.
This is true of the separate lift/control levers for the loader, as well as for the 3-point combined with either.
Another thought - 'regenerative' is an optional feature that routes fluid returned from a retracting cylinder, toward the other end of the cylinder that can use this extra volume to move faster. I don't know much about it, but it might be relevant to what you see.