From an electrical standpoint I can't see how unequal lengths would stress a welder. Yes, all wire has an inherent per-foot resistance and the longer the cables, the more power your welder has to be able to produce to get the same current at the weld. Thing is, once the arc is struck, the current is traveling down one wire and up the other making a complete circuit. I can totally understand how making the total length too long might stress the welder and heat up the cables, but I've only seen equal paths have an effect when operating at really high frequencies on things like a computers primary data bus. That's why sometimes you'll see circuit traces zigzag in apparent wasted space because they have to make the length of the trace from one side of a chip equal to the length from the other side to make sure the resistance is mostly identical across all data lines.
No idea how that would come into play in a welder.