Scruffy -
About moving to the country at this point -- this is probably worthy of its own thread, but I'm not sure how much of a hornet's nest I want to stir up, so I'll keep it here.
<font color=red>DISCLAIMER</font color=red> - Remember, I have spent my entire life (and therefore my kids' lives) in the suburbs of a relatively affluent, hi-tech and heavily populated area. Although I am starting to see the charm and desirability of country living, I am obviously somewhat brain-washed on the "best" way to raise my children.
Please don't think I am implying that anyone
not raised in such an environment has been in any way "deprived". It just goes to a state of mind, your honor... /w3tcompact/icons/crazy.gif
From discussions I've already had with some of the locals around my "country" property I realize there is a lot of emotion and pride involved, so let me share my perspective and my findings so far in terms of cold, hard numbers and facts:
<font color=blue>Schools</font color=blue> (a
very touchy subject)
Here - percentile ranking in the 90's.
There - percentile ranking in the 60's.
<font color=blue>Round trip to school</font color=blue> (by car)
Here: less than 5 minutes
There: about 25 minutes
<font color=blue>Hospitals</font color=blue>
Here: 6 minutes from one of the finest in the state and less than an hour from several of the finest in the country.
There: 30 minutes from a small country medical facility and more than an hour from a "major" hospital.
<font color=blue>Playmates</font color=blue>
Here - more than a dozen within walking distance from home.
There - none within walking distance.
<font color=blue>Activities</font color=blue>
Here: Yuppie stuff
There: Country stuff (no problem here - just a transition /w3tcompact/icons/smile.gif)
The list goes on, but these are currently foremost on my mind, and should inspire enough controversy for now.
I guess an underlying question that has been nagging me since the birth of my first is, would it be better to raise my kids "city" style and then let them join us in the country if they so choose, or raise them "country" style and let them move to the city at their discretion? Which way would they be more prepared?
I honestly don't know the answers here, but I respect this group enough to solicit opinions, especially from the rural community.