Too much work !!

   / Too much work !! #21  
I know this old homestead started out as a 360 acre government land grant. That was in 1892. Over time it was whittled down to the 80 acres I now own.

What a joke. The grant was given to search for oil. There is more grease/oil under my fingernails than was ever found. ANYWHERE - near here. From what can be gathered - nobody ever spent any time looking for oil. I have the paperwork on this land. All the way back to the original government land grant issued to the homesteader. 360 acres - surveyed by meets and bounds. Two of the original survey markers have been found and are now most carefully protected.

My father purchased this land in 1940. Just before he was drafted - WW11. He paid the princely sum - $1200. And with the understand that the homesteader and his wife could live here until they died.

Back in the day there was a town - Amber - about mile and a half south of me. Had a post office and grain storage facility. All of the old homesteaders mail was addressed to Amber.

The homesteader died in 1950 and his wife moved to live with her relatives three years later.

It was a very hard life out here. No access to any public road. No electricity. The old man had a Model T. He drove across the neighbors fields to get access to the county road.

I remember meeting the old man - once. What I remember - he smelled of pipe tobacco. I was seven when I met him.

My lake is named after the old homesteader.
 
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   / Too much work !! #22  
No such thing as maintenance free. How long before dust (windblown or piggybacking on rain/snow) starts to accumulate and wind-blown seeds take root? It'll happen.
True, it does happen, but it's easily controlled with a handheld spray bottle of Roundup.
 
   / Too much work !! #23  
Wow, you young oltimers sure has some good genes. I'm just aiming to get past 70 before I'll aim higher if I'm that lucky. One that was in the Tchernobyl downfall area in the 80's, I have cousins dying left and right back home.
 
   / Too much work !! #24  
Well I went into the office at 7, and worked until 5:30, yesterday.

Then went home and mowed the lawn for two hours.

Watered all the flowers for the misses since she is out of town on Business.

Took a business call at 8 for a client in Singapore.

Took the dog for a walk at 9.

Had dinner at 9:45.

Went to bed at 11.

My schedule is like this most days...
I'm sorry for you.
 
   / Too much work !! #25  
I'm sorry for you.
You shouldn't.

People need to grind a bit. It makes for one to be able to tackle anything at anytime. I purposely keep myself busy. I could easily hire out the mowing or even have a staff member do the call. I find mowing relaxing and taking the dog for a walk on the ranch to be relaxing. One should be tired when they go to bed and then you don't have to toss and turn all night.
 
   / Too much work !! #26  
One of the things I have grown to hate as I've gotten older is Business travel. I hate it. It's exhausting. I do just a few Board Meetings a year, and the rest I let staff handle.

It's actually made us change the way we vacation. We try and just do one vacation to a destination a year, if that sometimes. I am not old enough to do senior cruises, but I doubt I will ever do one. Nothing about being on a ship with tons of other people entices me.

We have invested in a place in Steamboat for winters and a cabin in the mountains for summers. We would rather just have our own place to relax in on weekends than do hotels and AirBNB. A person gets a lot more recharge in their own place than anywhere else. It took us a lot of years to figure that out.
 
   / Too much work !! #27  
People need to grind a bit. It makes for one to be able to tackle anything at anytime. I purposely keep myself busy.
I went that route after I lost my first wife. Kept busy all the time so I didn't mope or feel sorry for myself. Trouble is (at least for me, YMMV) it wasn't sustainable and eventually I just crashed. Got to the point where I took several months off work (using accumulated comp & vacation time) and did a road trip. Came back with a much clearer head, and a realization that there was nothing wrong with quiet/personal time.

As the old saying goes, no one ever looks back at their life and wishes they'd spent more time at the office.
One of the things I have grown to hate as I've gotten older is Business travel. I hate it. It's exhausting. I do just a few Board Meetings a year, and the rest I let staff handle.
For most of my 20s & 30s I was a field service tech, which required a lot of business travel. I enjoyed the work itself immensely, but hated the "travel" part of it; airport hassles, the flying itself, dealing with rental car outfits, etc. Don't think I've been on a plane in close to 40 years, and don't ever plan to.
 
   / Too much work !! #28  
I went that route after I lost my first wife. Kept busy all the time so I didn't mope or feel sorry for myself. Trouble is (at least for me, YMMV) it wasn't sustainable and eventually I just crashed. Got to the point where I took several months off work (using accumulated comp & vacation time) and did a road trip. Came back with a much clearer head, and a realization that there was nothing wrong with quiet/personal time.

As the old saying goes, no one ever looks back at their life and wishes they'd spent more time at the office.

For most of my 20s & 30s I was a field service tech, which required a lot of business travel. I enjoyed the work itself immensely, but hated the "travel" part of it; airport hassles, the flying itself, dealing with rental car outfits, etc. Don't think I've been on a plane in close to 40 years, and don't ever plan to.

Don't worry, I always find time in my busy day to bust balls on TBN. I don't run myself ragged, but do stay busy. Big distinction.

I have a very blessed life and my work is hard, but not physically exhausting. Plus don't worry, I have a doctor in the family that will not hold back on telling me what I need to do or not do... :LOL:
 
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I recently saw an article titled, "Grandparents who babysit grandchildren live longer". Well we are doing that two to five days a week. Usually just the one year old, but sometimes the eleven and seven year old siblings. About twice a month we also have the other bunch who are fifteen and eight. THAT is fun, having all five grands at once. It also gets me behind on other things but who cares. Little toot granddaughter has a fit if I leave the room she is in to go to the utility room or outside. Going to the utility room means a ride in a laundry basket. Going outside means stomping around in the grass. We must have a "granddaddy adventure" every day so she is happy. Gotta go, they are here.
 

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