And here I am... And I ALWAYS have an unlocked and loaded fire arm in my bedroom and a few other places around my house. Just remember an unloaded gun is nothing more than an expensive hammer! And everyone in MY "entourage", as you put it, knows where they all are and how to use them.
And I do not spend any time worrying about such things so when I'm tired its not from that.
And like s2s said above, I carry a "loaded" gun with me pretty much ALL the time anyway.. mowing the lawn, going to the store or out to eat, or out hunting.. yeah, pretty much anywhere it is legal to do so.