Sounds like you are around baby boomers with a lower Work ethic perhaps or some of our wifes are a cut above.
No, I was born in 1944 and was full-time farming until a heart operation made me retire two years ago in May and just turned 77.
When younger I worked behind a desk to make enough money to get a deposit on a farm. As I posted, I expect any white collar worker to put in at least 50 to 60 hours a week. A few years later I was still doing that and farming too - not a hobby farm, but a business. My wife was in her late 50s and working over 100 hours a week (I was doing the same) when I decided we needed to change our farm for another where she did not need to work so much. We moved to a smaller place where we continued for another 18 years before retiring.
I don't know what to tell you. She's a machine. So are her parents.
No human being is a machine, and even machines need maintenance downtime.
Are you sure? I recall being on the job at 6 AM, working like a dog and if a big order came in that day I'd stop by the office around 4 PM and ask the office if anyone wanted to go to lunch, I'd buy. I always got a bunch of strange looks and people would say they had to go HOME for dinner. I'd say "okay, invite your family for dinner then". After I bought dinner I'd work until about 11 PM. Then back at work at 6 AM. About killed me but I was young then.
Yes, I am sure. If you worked 17 hours a day for 5 days a week that is still only 85 hours a week, but you have to deduct from that the time you spent travelling between home and your workplace (as everyone does that) and the time to have dinner, so let us say 60 to 70 hours a week. Not a lot really. Take off also any stops for refreshments. You cannot go from leaving home to be on the job at 6 a.m. and go to 4 p.m. without any break.
I agree that had we maintained 100+ hours a week in our late 50s it would have killed us too. In our 20s and 30s it was not too dificult.
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I am not claiming to be anything special by way of working - the original point of me posting was that younger folks than me in supposedly office jobs are not in the office. The point of having an office is that all the information relative to the customers/clients/whatever are in the office and so are all the different people with the knowledge about those customers etc. Individuals working from home do not have the ready access (no matter how good they claim their computer systems to be) to colleagues and information that they would have in their offices.
Personal experience of attempting to deal with people in several different countries since the phenoma began is that responses from many governmental and commercial businesses is immensely worse than when they were in their proper workplace.
Let us be realistic people. There are those who work, and those who do not, but we all need some downtime every now and again. We all need to keep hydrated. We all need to eat. Those who claim not to do so are not telling the truth.
I expect others (who have a vested interest in staff not attending their workplace) to disagree with me.