It’s socially inacceptable. Better to be a carcass, letting “the system”Why not? When your life is over, it's over. I put my dogs down when they have run their last trail, I see no reason not to provide the same grace to myself.
Very few people have the nerve. You don’t just go from vibrant to bedridden, usually it’s a slow process.
OTOH, when my father got Alzheimer’s we knew that he wouldn’t survive long in a nursing home. My mother kept him home as long as she could; which was longer than she should have.
He walked in on his own, but within a week never left his bed. After 6 weeks he just stopped eating…
I was at the house the weekend before he went in, and noticed then that he seemed to have trouble swallowing. A couple of years ago I read that is one of the complications of Alzheimer’s. However, I still believe that he just decided it was time to move on…