I just read 8 page thread on automatic gates.  And then I ordered one today.  Valentines day is right around the corner so that is what Jefanna gets this year.  I'm a sappy romantic, I know.  In the past, She has gotten a new bumper and winch for her jeep, new Benchmade knife (she loses things) battery operated pruning sheers.  battery operated pruning chan saw.  One year I was kind of frivolous and took her to the nursery and filled the truck with cherry trees and dogwood trees.  I don't like spending money on things I think are stupid.  I buy her flowers on a regular basis from the grocery store.  they are much cheaper and she isn't big on candy.  I'm gonna get 3-4 cans of spray paint and repaint the gate, and put the opener on it and that's that. 
I need to go pick up some grout tonight.  I already had two boxes of it but was researching application and saw some tests and the kind I bought did very poorly so I am gonna return that and get something else.