It really sounds like all of your tractor uses would be best suited with traditional R4 tires. If you are not doing any serious ground-engaging work that requires the most traction, then R1 tires may not be the best choice. Seems like you already know this...
That said, I just replaced the R4s on my 20-year-old JD 3520 (tires starting to dry-rot) with the following on the front: Carlstar Trac Chief 6 ply, and Carlstar Ground Force 400 R4 14 ply G rating on the rear. All have great reviews, and I've been happy with them so far for the same uses as you. I've also used them for tilling with my reverse-rotation tiller and they have better traction than the original Galaxy R4s. Most of my tractor use is bush hogging and loader work.
No experience with the R14s, and they look interesting, but wonder why you think you need them based on what you use the tractor to do. If the majority of time on your tractor was tilling, discing, plowing, chiseling (working the ground), with a little bit of the bush hogging and loader work, then traditional R1s would likely be best.
My opinion is to look for the highest-quality R4s you can afford. Titan, Galaxy, Goodyear, Calstar all have lots of models and sizes. BUT, this may well require different rim sizes for the R4s.
My biggest issues with the new tires were actually finding a reseller that had my sizes in stock, and then finding someone to install the new tires. And, there was the cost of it all...
Good luck with whatever you decide!