I stoped by the NewHolland dealer and the bolts are 1-1/4"x3/8" grade 5 with nylon lock nuts, the bolt I took a picture of earlier was only grade 2 and was not the correct bolt. So tomorrow I will change the direction of the blades and see if I can cut some grass.
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I see the other bolts do show the threads sticking past the nut and your correct, they are all messed up and don't come off that easy.
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I changed the gear oil and it started leaking at the seal, so the previous owner must of had some thick gear oil in there. The NewHolland dealer sold me two quarts of this and said this stuff won't leak.
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Leonz, thanks for posting that manual

and thanks to everyone else who posted, you guys are all very helpful.