What I'm trying to understand here is that if the furnace is more efficient running on low fire and can handle the heating load year around on low fire, what is gained by going to high fire?
Two types of "two stage gas valves"
1 - one that is timed, that brings second stage heat automatically on.
2 - one that brings on second stage heat when needed.
If you're using LP, 1st stage will use less gas, saving you money (more so than NG which is usually less expensive).
In NC, most guys size a house for heating at 20 or 17 degrees design temp. Fact is though, although it may get colder than 17 degree in NC, the run time below 17 isn't as great as a run say at 45 degrees (in NC).
Second stage (high fire) on the gas valve produces more heat (uses more fuel). However, when heating set point is met, valve can drop down to first stage, using less fuel due to the net output of the furnace.
With LP in general, a non timed 2 stage gas valve can save you money for heating because a single stage valve burns a max capacity when heating is needed whereas a two stage valve can drop into the low fire mode.
Generally, you pay more for a "true" two stage gas furnace than a single stage gas furnace.
What I don't understand is why you paid someone to install a two stage gas furnace, yet it was wired up incorrectly not to bring second stage on? Sorry, makes little sense.