Checked the tractor this evening and the rocker switch was rocked forward, which I think means loadmatch was on.
I took a look at the 4410 O-M: The rocker switch is vertically oriented and the function is ON when the top portion is pressed IN, per the manual. (Same as my 3320).
I wish there was a dashboard light for this, especially since the switch lettering is long gone. The local Deere service manager (who kindly charged me $0 when I brought the machine in expecting a transmission overhaul and instead got a lesson about load match which did not involve the word "idiot") was surprised that there wasn't a light too.
A few other thoughts on this -- I usually run at 1500 rpm as a general rule, the tractor is pretty sluggish lower than that, always with load match on. Below 1500 rpm, if the LM is off and in 2WD, the tractor is basically immobilized. That said, if your LM is on and you're running at 1500 and the tractor is immobile, then I'd think that either the LM isn't working, or ... something else is wrong.
Another way to test the LM is to press the rocker on the downside (LM off), run at about 2,000 rpm and drive the loader into an immovable object to stall the engine. Then, press the rocker on the upside (LM on), run the machine at about 2,000 rpm and the drive loader into an immovable object. If the machine doesn't stall but just throttles down, then the LM is working.