Okay...I found both clutch plates and throw out bearing for the dual stage clutch in my JD 850 with shipping at just under $250 at Southern Global Tractor. They were the only place that I found with all three parts for the dual stage, and I was pleased to find that the person on the other end of the phone was very capable of getting the right parts sorted out with me. They did not have the bushing that goes into the carriage assembly for the throw out bearing, and mine is worn pretty badly. The JD number for that part is CH-13095. Luckily a search of Ebay turned up a new one in an opened box for $25 with $4 shipping. So now I await the deliveries. By the way, JD did list all of these parts as available and their total for them was nearly $1050. Wow is all I'm going to say.
For this dual stage clutch I see that there is a special tool made for adjusting the PTO assembly "clutch fingers." That tool, JDG-52, is just a special measuring tool that looks like a carpenter's square with two right angles instead of one. Luckily I see that someone here on the Forum has posted a diagram of it with measurements, so I am going to whip one out of metal, or maybe even stiff cardboard...the link to that post is here:
Drawing & Measurements for JD Clutch Adjustment Tool - JDG-52
I hope I can get the adjustments all dialed in correctly--I have the shop manual, so the whole process is detailed there. So that's the update, and I hope to be running again by next week sometime....