Richard said:
If there is a difference, do I want to by design, have one over the other, hotter? (for example, the lower one so the bottom is at "finished temp"?
Going to tinker more on this tonight after work.
Just like warm air rises to the ceiling, warm water rises to the top of the tank. Because of this, that is where the hot water is drawn from. The cold water inlet has a pipe that delivers the cold makeup water to the bottom of the tank. A typical water heater will have two elements, each with a thermostat. Set them both at the same temp. Because of the wiring, only one will run at a time, with the lower unit being a slave to the upper one. If you look at the label on the hot water heater, it will probably say something like:
Upper element 4500W
Lower Element 4500W
Total 4500W(because only one can run at a time)
As you use hot water the level of the cold water being fed into the bottom of the tank rises. When it reaches the lower thermostat, it turns on that element to start making warm water. This water being warmer than the surrounding water rises toward the top of the tank. If you use enough hot water fast enough, the cold level will rise high enough to activate the upper thermostat. The lower element running delays this as the column of hot water rising from the lower element flows right past the upper thermostat. As soon as this thermostat kicks on, it cuts off the power to the lower thermostat. It's colum of rising hot water flows directly up toward the hot water outlet from the tank.
When you stop using hot water, the upper element continues to heat the tank till the heat layer lowers enough to turn off the upper thermostat. As son as it shuts off, it connects power to the lower thermostat that continues to heat the water down to the point where it shuts off. A little bit of conduction warms it down a bit below the lower element with a cool layer left on the bottom. As the tank radiates heat, the coolest water slides down the outer case and pools in the bottom till that level rises high enough to kick in the lower element. That is why the lower element usually burns out first, it gets more use. In fact, I don't recall ever swapping out an upper element.
I set mine for just a little over 125F This yields around 130F outlet water temp. Unless you have a really old dishwasher, it probably already has a water heating element built in. they are pretty standard these days.