On my unit there are an assortment of holes to choose from, and there isn't a configuration that ever truly seems under tension on both sides in a neutral position... one side reaches it's limit to play out on one side, and vice-versa. Depending on the 3pt configuration of each implement, there may be compression on a side before the other is fully stretched.
I don't believe you want to snug up all the play in your unit and have the whole thing under tension when in "neutral", or every shock is stretching and compressing the entire frame, of which the stabilizers are the part you need/want to fail before their attachment points on the 3pt.
I know it's tempting to fill up the box, drag and turn it every which way that fits the job, but the linkages are not liking it, and sacrificing themselves for the rest of the unit. When grading with the box will only fill minimally, so strain comes from an empty box weight--not a fully loaded one. If you leave a little sway, you may get more time out of them, but you either have to change the practice, or get used to replacing them. You can always drop the pile, turn around and back up to/over it and take smaller straighter bites.
I would NOT put heavier ones in place and ask the frame or arm to be the next weakest link... your repair is 4 pins at this point.
I don't believe you want to snug up all the play in your unit and have the whole thing under tension when in "neutral", or every shock is stretching and compressing the entire frame, of which the stabilizers are the part you need/want to fail before their attachment points on the 3pt.
I know it's tempting to fill up the box, drag and turn it every which way that fits the job, but the linkages are not liking it, and sacrificing themselves for the rest of the unit. When grading with the box will only fill minimally, so strain comes from an empty box weight--not a fully loaded one. If you leave a little sway, you may get more time out of them, but you either have to change the practice, or get used to replacing them. You can always drop the pile, turn around and back up to/over it and take smaller straighter bites.
I would NOT put heavier ones in place and ask the frame or arm to be the next weakest link... your repair is 4 pins at this point.