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Don't give away any plans, or tell about "what she said". You might ask advice on "what if" basis, and later, when things are settled, you might come back and give more info. But for now, just keep your head up, stay busy, and pray for guidance.
I can't say whether to spend a whole lot of money on legal counsel. I've seen grown adults spend everything on lawyers, only to both come out broke, just to keep the other from getting anything. A lawyer that specializes in men's divorces, recommends not moving out of your home and castle. Don't be the one to budge on your home. Live there and if she doesn't like it, let her move out. Unless of course you think she might do something physically to harm you. My divorce was mutually agreed and we divided stuff ourselves and our lawyer filed the papers for $500 ($250 each) back in 1998.