First Marriage in your 60’s?

[scootr]

That's why my wife and I dated for 6 years, and we didn't have children for 7 more after that.

Be honest, it just took you that long to get that close to her

 

[Torvy]

Several of my older friends surprised me remarrying after becoming a widow.

They all said the same… been married too long to be single…

They all married within 10 years of their age and often also a widow…

One of my friends said retirement communities have 3 or 4 single women for every single man…

I already have a deal. If I ever become single again, plan B goes into effect. We've known each other longer than I've known my wife.

 

[Runner]

Happy Anniversary!

I send this to my kid and her husband every year... there's a longer version, but this is just as annoying.

Thanks. So funny, I sang that exact little song to her on the day of

 

[MossRoad]

Be honest, it just took you that long to get that close to her

I wish it was that simple.

Fortunately, we had enough sense as teenagers and then young adults to not make any babies we could not support. Then, after we got married and wanted kids, we found out we were both borderline sterile. All that precaution for nothing!!!

We both had physical issues that made it difficult to get pregnant. She had severe endometriosis and cysts that blocked her tubes, and I have Varicocele (look it up). Surgeries and lots of ice (use your imagination after you look it up) took care of it.

Like I said... we really wanted children. We did not want to go in vitro, as we believe life begins at conception, and what do you do with multiple fertilized eggs if you have that belief? (not knocking anyone that went with in vitro, it just wasn't on our cafeteria tray of life choices we've made).

So our choices were limited to natural or adoption.

 

[MossRoad]

Thanks. So funny, I sang that exact little song to her on the day of

 

[tradosaurus]

Several of my older friends surprised me remarrying after becoming a widow.

They all said the same… been married too long to be single…

They all married within 10 years of their age and often also a widow…

One of my friends said retirement communities have 3 or 4 single women for every single man…

My wife and I are both 60. Started having kids at age 25. 8 healthy kids later God decided she had enough at age 42.

But if I became a widower, no way in hell would I try my luck with another woman who is most likely damaged goods.

 

[arto98607]

Wouldn't you be "damaged goods" also?

 

[tradosaurus]

Wouldn't you be "damaged goods" also?

Nopers! I'm awesome!
Damaged goods = divorced multiple times, on medication, and/or living with cats.

 

[not2old]

My wife picked me because I came pre-trained. I picked her because I saw how well she treated her dog.

 

[ultrarunner]

Successful marriages I have seen are based on respect…

Once respect is gone the marriage is on the rocks or so it seems to me.