As another long time avid bicyclist I will chime in.
I agree with Ford850 that quality has suffered. Back in the 60's "better" tube stems passed through saddle-shaped washers that clamped the rubber. That gave way to molded rubber button reinforcements similar to auto tubes (remember them?). The size of the buttons shrank, and many tubes fail at the valve stem, The trend toward deep vee rims that require longer stems exacerbates the problem as the longer stems have more leverage in shallow rims. While tourists will accept heavy, durable tubes, racer wannabe's are weight weenies and demand lightweight tubes that are more permeable and that go soft without daily inflation. Good tubes are still available but at a premium; Schwalbe and Continental enjoy good reputations. They are both nominally German, but I have seen Made in Taiwan or Singapore on some of them. The Asians are capable of making good stuff, but the merchants that buy from them want cheap and get it. China and India are notoriously bad sources.
If the rim cross section has a deep center, one can work the bead into the center and get enough slack to mount a tire without tire irons. Some rims are shaped differently, and some (high pressure) tires are deliberately undersized, so tire irons are used. Tire irons require some care. If one pinches a tube with a tire iron or an inappropriate tool like a screwdriver, the "wound" will likely be a tear rather than a puncture.
The most common cause of repeat flats is a failure to remove the offending cause. As you discovered, this may be a sharp edge on the valve stem hole or any of the spoke nipple holes. It may also be a shard of glass or a short bit of wire that escapes notice. If you have time to inflate the tube and correlate the "wound" to a spot on the tire or rim that may help identify the culprit. I typically run my thumb around the inside circumference of the tire and hope my callouses are thicker than the shard is deep. Another cause is a second puncture that is less noticeable than the first. Often this is so small as to be undetectable without water, and being small will allow one to limp home with repeated re-pumpings.
In any event, you now have 8 tubes, some of which you could repair and have as spares. I do have opinions on on-the-road and back-at-home repairs but that is not germaine to your original question.