I assume your tractor is hydrostatic? Finding an alarm and wiring it is not so hard I think, it's the activation, as I'm sure you understand, that's more complicated. From what I gather, a lot of big hydro machines use pressure switches in the hydraulic lines to sense flow to the reversing system, which then closes the switch and activates the alarm. I'd call my dealer and see if something exists that can be added to the tractor. If it exists, it's probably not cheap. If I had to do this myself for some particular temporary purpose, I'd probably rig some kind of mechanical (not hydraulic) pressure switch at the reverse pedal. Might take some tinkering. I'd want something I could cleanly pull off the tractor later. If some fixed points in the linkage could be identified that give a positive "reading", a cheapo reed switch might even work. Hopefully somebody out there has better ideas. Wish I had actual experience to help you with, instead of just "thinking out loud".