05 Suburban K1500 with right at 90k miles. I bought it at 55k miles and don't know what the previous owner did to it. First thing I did was get the trans oil flushed.
At 75k something happened to the transfer case (known problem on 05) and this somehow damaged a seal on the transmission (according to the dealership, who repaired it under warranty) so I had them put on a new ATS filter then since it was getting new oil and I figured the filter may have been contaminated by debris from malfunction. I was really shocked that the dealer would not put the filter on the warranty, they made me pay for it.
I don't drive a lot of miles, 5000 - 8000 a year, but it's mostly towing 3000# - 7000# around town. It does have the aux trans cooler. So far this truck has been great, no gremlins, etc. and I want to keep it a long time. I plan to buy a second, bigger truck for the bigger tows but it might be a year or two before I can afford it. I'm hoping to save enough for a fairly new 1-ton DRW and keep working this Suburban hard until then.
Anyway that's a lot of information. I just wanted to know what people think about doing only the flushes, or only the pan drop, etc. On my '99 I alternated at about 20k intervals but electrical gremlins drove me to trade it at 110k miles anyway.
EDIT: You are correct I don't do the service myself. I have the tools and I could probably do it but it would take me all day, I'd be buying the service manual and following the instructions. I stopped doing my own auto maintenance when the price of fluids and parts at local shops started costing more than the price of just taking the truck in to have it done.