Any Regrets On Moving To The Farm ?????

   / Any Regrets On Moving To The Farm ????? #21  
ncredneck, If you are happy that your financial situation is such that you can afford to move now, then do it now, otherwise I would suggest a little wait. Not a long wait, just as short as possible.

I was 59 when we moved here from northern Scotland (and some people thought I was too old to "start a new life"). That was 11 years ago, and the fifth farm of my own in 3 countries. I might have one more move left, I might not, life is good here and very cheap.

I would suggest that whatever happens you move whilst you still feel fit enough to tackle any job you might face. No point in waiting until you are slowing down - I am not as strong as I was 10 years ago, but still humped 50kgs (110lbs) sacks of lime and fertiliser into the spreader earlier in the week, and looking forward to the olive harvest starting at the end of the month.

I should maybe have added that my wife and I did not wait until we felt financially secure, we would never have done it if we did - but not everybody is prepared to live on a low income. Take advantage of the free sample of the first 15% of my book about living a rich rural life without much income and see what is possible if you really want to. You can download the sample through the link on my website. It costs you nothing except a little time to read it.
 
   / Any Regrets On Moving To The Farm ????? #22  
Great stories, every one of them. I moved to the outskirts of a new town, up on a hill, 10 acres of my own, another hundred surrounding me. Everything is 20 mins away, and the Fedex and UPS guys find the place just perfectly. 2 of the 5 kids (and one of the grand babies!) are 20 mins away as well. I did 20years in the Navy, and am still slugging it out in the corporate world- actually typing this out from downtown Beijing China right now! Pretty lucky guy that works from home, but at 52 the day to day grind of big companies is getting to me. Everything is paid for, the Navy pension and 401k are pretty secure to take me thru to the end, having a real hard time staying motivated enough to keep socking the 16k$ away each year for the retirement account, but if all I have to do is keep spending 50 hours a week chained to the home office desk, and the 6-12 trips around the globe each year, I think I can get thru at least 2016 before hanging up the laptop and spending much more quality time making my snowmobile trails thru the woods and becoming a full time sun flower farmer- that.s the dream at least. +100 on the good partner part, my 2nd and last wife has been 1000% the reason for my success and happiness, 10 years with the ex took its toll, but after 13 years with the sweetheart of my life, doesn't even seem like it ever happened. Life is too short, move when you can, get to what feels like home, and remember the malls and shopping will always be there, I really cant stand them anymore...
Farm life is definitely for me!
 
   / Any Regrets On Moving To The Farm ????? #23  
Yep, I sure miss the city. Missed the postage stamp lot with neighbor's ugly cheesy fences o 3 sides. Sure do miss the home owners association (you can't park a boat in your driveway at any time). Can't see a single neighbor now. I can pee anywhere without being seen. My backyard city neighbor was a flasher, but was so ugly I hated to have to look at her. My retired city neighbor always complained about an occasional weed in one of my driveway cracks. Speaking of crack, the crack-heads were always trying to steal whatever was not cemented down in my yard, my porch and my garage. Sure do miss having 2 deadbolt locks on my doors now. I don't even know where the keys are now for my current house, barn or machinery shed. There's probably still a barking dog next door to my old house. And I sure do miss nodding hello through the bathroom windows to my good neighbor next door when we happened to pee together. I REALLY feel bad when I have a nightmare about my current property taxes versus what I was paying almost 30 years ago. Heck, the current owner there could buy a slightly new green tractor with what he pays in taxes there now.

And you can understand how terrible it feels when my city friends pull up my 800' driveway, park their car and lock it. Just what do they think I'm going to do while we all have dinner?

Honestly, I have to go back to Ann Arbor once a year or so, just to slap myself in the head for moving.
 
   / Any Regrets On Moving To The Farm ????? #24  
No, not one regret, except for perhaps not doing it sooner:

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   / Any Regrets On Moving To The Farm ????? #25  
there is a lot of expense and down right work keeping a property up. a lot of it is machinery and tools, but then just plain old physical labor.
if you are a person that wants vacations, and take off some place, big acreage can be ugly.
you are a weekend warrior and it never really stops, every weekend something needs to be replaced, fixed, etc... etc....

you can quickly get lost in wanting say some awesome garden look, and plants, and flowers all over the place, and it can over whelm you. KISS (keep it simply stupid) it is no longer about look here, but rather, what needs to be done (prep work) to make things easier and faster and still get it done. ""cutting tree limbs so ya do not knock yourself off tractor or tear something off tractor while mowing"", cutting a tree out, redo fence lines, and areas to make it easier mowing, redo drives (dirt / gravel) for easier plowing / dealing with snow, pull all the bushes, and mow down the flowers. keep things picked up and cleaned up.. (tree branches, fallen trees, etc...) keep things mowed as well to deal with keeping rodents at bay, erosion issues, etc..., having an actual shed that is not a "storage shed' but a usable shed for regular maintance of the various machines and tools that are needed for regular maintenance around the farm.

the faster and easier regular maintenance stuff is... more free time i have to do what i might want to do vs. being a slave to the farm.

the difference between city and country... what means taking 1/2 hour to deal with stuff outside in city = 1+ hour at country. larger machines, more prep work, oil changes, gas or diesel, checking stuff making sure it is good to go, longer time doing what ever, driveways, mowing, going to get something at a store can turn out to be 1/2 day wasted.

knowing how to drive an actual truck or sports utilty vehicle in the mud and snow. 2wd, 4wd, i don't care. simply knowing how to drive in various conditions and keep on going, and keeping you safe and others safe as well while on the road.
city folks = tow truck, country folks, keep on going. or they stay till someone with a vehicle comes back home to go out.

dealing with stray's (dogs, cats, etc...)

your more likely to have a neighbor that likes to shoot his guns. or drive 4 wheels / atv on some sort of track near you out in the country.

generator of some sort more likely a requirement. power outages may be down for some time.

internet out in the country stinks. satilete about only cheaper way to get high speed, but ya still pay out the rear for it.

females! and them getting use to dealing with a septic tank and septic field, and not putting female stuff down the toilet, and men condoms....

working around a well. only able to do wash some much laundry at a given time, more limited to only being able to use a single source of water at a time (if ya have multi kids... lots of showers / baths.... and working between well, washing dishes, laundry... and you could be in the hurt)

lots of folks say well water is good, but if you have a ugly well, well water does go bad, and then it may come back... each and every year.

hard water wells... replacing faucets, shower heads, valves, etc... toliets, dealing with stains from hard water on sinks, showers, and like.

telephone (land line) can easily go out or staticky, and cell phone reception can be non existence, it may be good one moment, then a breeze picks up and gone the next.

cattle getting out, it may not happen that often, but when they do. say good by to flower beds, and say hello to hoof prints all over the yard.
and if it is night time, they can be worse that deer in the head lights. more so black cows... been there done that.

living out in country, at least for me, for what ever reason, i am like a deer magnet. if i drive at night time. new set of brakes min per year. not to mention, other animals running out in front of me. if it was not for anti lock breaks, i would need new tires every few months from locking up brakes and putting a flat spot on tires.

*ughs* fires... a lot of folks around here like burning out ditches and other areas off... part of the mowing thing. is keeping paths opened up, for fire brakes, and keeping stuff down so nothing can go up in an instant if a fire gets out of hand.

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a lot of things end up getting done by a single person, working machinery and tools. and if your are not with it... can be life threatening deadly. all it takes is one little mishap.
 
   / Any Regrets On Moving To The Farm ????? #26  
It would be nice if the bars were closer at times, but I enjoy pissing in the front yard and shooting guns in the yard.
 
   / Any Regrets On Moving To The Farm ?????
  • Thread Starter
#27  
Guys
Thank you for all of the reply's each one will go in my thought process. I can not move for 2 years as we need to keep my daughter in Apex schools. I am a long term planer and have financial end covered no matter what decision we make. We are starting to look at new houses and builders. We want something smaller and easier to maintain that house we have in Apex. Building on property will require selling double wide.
Building a new house would not be the smartest move if we sold in a few years after moving in. We have considered living in double wide for a year or 2 to help decide if we want to live there or not. Also seriously considering renting house in Apex for a year or more. Then move would be reversible, it would be very hard to replace the home and location I have now.
I am a Walmart, Lowe's kind of guy, if I have those don't need much more. Wife on other hand goes to gym several times per week. She retired as a paralegal last year with full pension. Not sure how she will adjust as poster mentioned above.
I also agree with above poster that sitting in recliner all day is a quick way to die early.I have nice basement shop here in Apex. Welder , air compressor with room to back my 40 foot RV in and work on it. I will never give up shop until I go to retirement home.
I have always been a I would rather try and fail kind of guy than not try at all. How ever as you get older the failures hurt more and less time line to recover.
Please keep you thoughts and input coming.
Thanks
Scott
 
   / Any Regrets On Moving To The Farm ?????
  • Thread Starter
#28  
Guys
Thank you for all of the reply's each one will go in my thought process. I can not move for 2 years as we need to keep my daughter in Apex schools. I am a long term planer and have financial end covered no matter what decision we make. We are starting to look at new houses and builders. We want something smaller and easier to maintain that house we have in Apex. Building on property will require selling double wide.
Building a new house would not be the smartest move if we sold in a few years after moving in. We have considered living in double wide for a year or 2 to help decide if we want to live there or not. Also seriously considering renting house in Apex for a year or more. Then move would be reversible, it would be very hard to replace the home and location I have now.
I am a Walmart, Lowe's kind of guy, if I have those don't need much more. Wife on other hand goes to gym several times per week. She retired as a paralegal last year with full pension. Not sure how she will adjust as poster mentioned above.
I also agree with above poster that sitting in recliner all day is a quick way to die early.I have nice basement shop here in Apex. Welder , air compressor with room to back my 40 foot RV in and work on it. I will never give up shop until I go to retirement home.
I have always been a I would rather try and fail kind of guy than not try at all. How ever as you get older the failures hurt more and less time line to recover.
Please keep you thoughts and input coming.
Thanks
Scott
 
   / Any Regrets On Moving To The Farm ????? #29  
Old MacDonald, congrtats on you book.. I hope it sells thousands of copies and that it prospers you.

I like your courage. That's the right stuff!
 
   / Any Regrets On Moving To The Farm ????? #30  
It would be nice if the bars were closer at times, but I enjoy pissing in the front yard and shooting guns in the yard.

Better than shooting in bars and pissing in the street. Smile. I like few with friends on my porch..or a BBQ. City Bars bore the **** outa me...and empty my wallet
 

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