SWMBO is an attorney and as about the only blood related attorney to a large set of relatives has done a number of estate settlements usually going through probate etc.
Rule 1 is if it isn't in writing don't expect it to happen. So many of the relatives have shafted others I about expect long rifles at funerals.
Rule 2 is be VERY careful with power of attorney. Several households got sold out under the widow as a cash grab by one of the offspring that had convinced the deceased to give the power.
Rule 3 is that unless you can get away being a scofflaw Attorneys to settle disputes are expensive and SLOW. The wheels of justice turn slowly, but grind exceedingly fine.
Although the OP has not reposted in this thread that is something he should take into consideration - what's the value of the assets?
Should he pay $10,000 for the interest in a $3,000 garage? In some parts of the country lawyer fees are $400/hour and they will bill you for half an hour for billing you.
I disagree with
You hope for the best and plan accordingly but nothing is guaranteed...
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I plan for the worst and hope for the best. But never trust relatives.
Our son bought a 2 acre plot just north of Tupelo. Was planning on moving down with his wife (nurse) and young child. SWMBO fought for us to buy a lot right nearby a couple of years later. Before that discussion ended he got divorced and is living in Memphis.
Glad we didn't buy near him.