paulsharvey
Elite Member
Don't attack the daughter. If she was not interested in farming this little bit of farm ground in a residential area, why should she not sell it to the highest bidder? Her folks are dead, and they dont get a vote. Are you obligated to have a burdensome piece of property cause Mom and Dad wanted it that way? Nope.It’s too bad previous owners didn’t go through the right channels to make sure land stayed as they requested. What’s the point in trying to protect something if it can just be changed anyway. And shame on the daughter not respecting the wishes. Obviously she kept a straight face all the while waiting on the inevitable to cash out. This kind of stuff pisses me off.
So, my mom and her husband had 57 acres, sold 24; so they have 33 acres left, 3/4/2 home from 1950s on a 500 acre lake just outside the city limits. One day, they will be dead; there are 6 heirs. None of us could afford the taxes on that place; (which they dont pay cause her husband is disabled vet), but property taxes would be around $1000-1200/month; then insurance, repairs, maintenance, ect. Im not indebting My family, over mom's wishes. So, yes, I love the property, but in the end, one day, I will absolutely be pushing to sell to the highest bidder, who will likely do 2.5-5 acre "equestrian" properties. I have 2 sisters, 1 brother, and mom's husband has a daughter and son. 2 of us live in Florida; 1 in Ken, 1 in Tenn, 1 in WVa, 1 in NCar. I have spoken breifly with the sister that lives about 2 hours away, and she would be happy to pay 1/6th of the bills to have a "time share" of it. Honestly, Maybe i would pay 1/6th as a hunting property; but the 4 that live 8-12 hours away, nope; and im not paying 1/2 the bills; or doing the maintenance for others.