ultrarunner
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- Cat D3, Deere 110 TLB, Kubota BX23 and L3800 and RTV900 with restored 1948 Deere M, 1949 Farmall Cub, 1953 Ford Jubliee and 1957 Ford 740 Row Crop, Craftsman Mower, Deere 350C Dozer 50 assorted vehicles from 1905 to 2006
Most difficult situation compounded living in the era of COVID where many seniors are completely lost due to isolation.
Mom has said several times she would willingly go to the facility in the small town where she grew up because she knows people there and the priest visits everyday... it is next door to the church and her sister is there.
Problem is the thousands of miles distance...
Here in California monthly 10 to 12k can easily be spent when all the services are factored...
Several friends have kept parents in the family home using reverse mortgages to pay for that level of care.
Getting old isn't easy especially for independent minded...
Mom has said several times she would willingly go to the facility in the small town where she grew up because she knows people there and the priest visits everyday... it is next door to the church and her sister is there.
Problem is the thousands of miles distance...
Here in California monthly 10 to 12k can easily be spent when all the services are factored...
Several friends have kept parents in the family home using reverse mortgages to pay for that level of care.
Getting old isn't easy especially for independent minded...