My problem is that I'll open my mouth to run an idea past her and she will love it so much that she wants it done ahead of whatever project I'm currently doing. What really drives me crazy is that she is right, that idea really should get done right away, even though I want to stick to the project I'm already working on. For her, it becomes an emergency, or a huge financial loss if I don't get it done right away.
I've come to realize that medical people treat everything as a life or death emergency, and if a dog digs in the veggie garden, it really isn't a life or death emergency. Of course, I can't tell her that, so I stop what I'm doing and build her a dog proof fence around her veggie garden.