daugen
Epic Contributor
After 60 years with the same person how is that done.
not easily for sure.
I had a long talk with an elderly member of my church whose wife of many years had passed on.
He had his gravestone already prepared next to hers, just like I have next to my late wife's in the same
cemetery about 50 feet from him. His feeling was he would rather enjoy the memory of her for his remaining days
vs starting over. I think we never know, all a matter of the stars aligning and the right two people meeting each other.
If it happens, it happens. Like RNG has said, important to be happy with yourself and not have that happiness be dependent
upon others. But if you are a giver vs a taker, not having someone to give to can be hard. Best I can do at this point is give food to
the food pantry and homes for the birds.
On the night of June 1, while I was in the hospital, my late wife came to me in a dream after six years and told me to move on,
to open my heart up to someone new and get on with life. I had completely shut down after her death, and focused
on being a farmer. So now I look at Toppop and wonder if I'll get that lucky. But in the meantime
the only person responsible for my happiness is me.
not easily for sure.
I had a long talk with an elderly member of my church whose wife of many years had passed on.
He had his gravestone already prepared next to hers, just like I have next to my late wife's in the same
cemetery about 50 feet from him. His feeling was he would rather enjoy the memory of her for his remaining days
vs starting over. I think we never know, all a matter of the stars aligning and the right two people meeting each other.
If it happens, it happens. Like RNG has said, important to be happy with yourself and not have that happiness be dependent
upon others. But if you are a giver vs a taker, not having someone to give to can be hard. Best I can do at this point is give food to
the food pantry and homes for the birds.
On the night of June 1, while I was in the hospital, my late wife came to me in a dream after six years and told me to move on,
to open my heart up to someone new and get on with life. I had completely shut down after her death, and focused
on being a farmer. So now I look at Toppop and wonder if I'll get that lucky. But in the meantime
the only person responsible for my happiness is me.