James,
I hear you. I have lost a lot of my retirement in a week or so. If I was selfish, I would say "let it spread and kill a couple million...not my problem...I am prepared." I am ashamed to say I have thought that a few times.
We cannot believe all the numbers, but it seems the Chinese have this contained with remarkably few deaths. They are a communist country and can do things western governments cannot do until it may be too late. Look at Italy. They still have not peaked and more will die, but already they have more deaths than we know of in China.
The lowest projection I have seen is about 300k dead in the US. But that is assuming we keep doing what we are doing now. So, one measure we can use is..."the day we get to 1000 deaths in the US, then this thing was as bad as they thought". By then it will too late to do much and we are riding it out unless a wonder drug is found, produced and distributed that mitigates the symptoms....note: no vaccine for about a year assuming it does not mutate.
Letting the old, compromised, stupid people die quickly might be the best course of action. I am old but not stupid so can rationalize that option. Heck they will die anyway soon enough!!! When the system gets overwhelmed the old will not get (or will be pulled from) ventilators, and the time/resources used to help the old winds up getting wasted anyway. That is happening in Italy and will happen here....letting the old die. One ventilator...a 35 YO with two kids...a 70 YO with asthma...who gets it? This is the choice they are trying to avoid by flattening the curve. And it cannot be flattened if we carry on business as usual.