prof fate
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Sounds good.
But you also have things like my best friend from college - he had a girl and a boy a year later. The girl graduated valedictorian from college, went on for a masters, very succussful.
The son, same family, same geneitics, etc - finally at age 27 has held a job longer than 8 months. got thown out of the house a few times for not working/paying rent, etc.
Why is one motivated and the other not?
Why are some satisfied to live a welfare/ghetto life, yet others climb out and succeed?
But you also have things like my best friend from college - he had a girl and a boy a year later. The girl graduated valedictorian from college, went on for a masters, very succussful.
The son, same family, same geneitics, etc - finally at age 27 has held a job longer than 8 months. got thown out of the house a few times for not working/paying rent, etc.
Why is one motivated and the other not?
Why are some satisfied to live a welfare/ghetto life, yet others climb out and succeed?
There are rare exceptions but it isn't human nature to do more than necessary for getting by. Working to accomplish what we want from life must be taught and is an ongoing day to day process. The same is true for milking the system and something for nothing,it is far too often taught to many from the day they are born. I was no exception. If mom had gave me a choice I would have fished and hunted rather than helping her on the farm. To be honest,considering the availability of welfare,I'd still need an a** wupping now to make me hoe cotton in the Tx summer.
I never rose to great heights but my son own's a succesful business and daughter is a public school administrator. They in turn raised a teacher,a pharmacist,a firefighter,a class valedictorian that is still in school,a boy that is still in high school,own's a flock of sheep and is working an outdoor summer job in 95-101f daily temperatures. To my knowledge,noone above ever received food stamps or welfare. I want to make it clear that without mom's determination and prodding,I very well might have lived off welfare my intire life and likely taught my kids to do the same.