I can assure you that you did not pick up a 2,500 pound boulder that far away from yoru pins or a 2,800 pound chunk of barrier with your Kioti but if want to believe so knock yourself out. Whatever that boulder weighted and the weight of the tractor, bucket, QA, and rear attachment was likely almost all on your front axle. Not a safe working load for what the op is doing running around in people's yards
It's simply not practical to screw around swapping out impediments to find one which will work for what you are picking up for most people and certainly not an option for the OP doing tree work as carrying around other attachments is not practical.
IMO tractors need to have a safe working load and tipping load given like skid steers are as going off the rated capacity is not realistic from my experience as QA's, bucket, and loads beyond the rating at the pins or at 24" decreases capacity as does working on uneven terrain.
Your tractor will likely pick up about 1,500 pounds 24" from the pins on your FEL by the time you back out the QA nd bucket/forks/grapple and that is on flat ground with a good counterweight. Safe working load is likely about 1,000 pounds.
OPs tractor will probably lift 700-800 pounds at 24" with a counterweight on flat ground but a safe load is probably more like 400-500 to keep some weight on the rears and not tear up the yards where he is working or sik tipping if the terrain is uneven.