When a long tem member doesn't reply to your PM.....

[JDgreen227]

How does it make you feel, especially when they have done so in the past without hestitation?

 

[oldnslo]

Are they on vacation or not looking at this website? Guess it depends on what the the PM was about and the relationship between the individuals involved.

 

[JDgreen227]

Are they on vacation or not looking at this website? Guess it depends on what the the PM was about and the relationship between the individuals involved.

Latest PM I sent was to a member who appears to always be active but for reasons unknown they don't want to respond. I too am always active and online but I NEVER ignore a PM, even if it is critical of something I said either in a post or via PM.

 

[murphy1244]

Maybe not everybody likes to go head first into a Hurricane?

 

[JDgreen227]

Maybe not everybody likes to go head first into a Hurricane?

Ummm....so many of my posts and PM's seem to disappear because of what reason? Because I am outspoken? Because I am blatantly honest?

 

[murphy1244]

Ummm....so many of my posts and PM's seem to disappear because of what reason? Because I am outspoken? Because I am blatantly honest?

That, only you can answer, not me.

 

[/pine]

Maybe they have since put you on iggy...just sayin...!

 

[dusty3030]

You could get a bottle of wine and some ice cream and sit on the couch paint your toenails and pout about it I suppose.

 

[JDgreen227]

You could get a bottle of wine and some ice cream and sit on the couch paint your toenails and pout about it I suppose.

86 degrees here now....if I painted my toenails the I-scream would all melt first.....

 

[hawkeye08]

Sometimes folks don't say anything because their momma taught them not to say anything unless it was something good..

 

[JDgreen227]

Sometimes folks don't say anything because their momma taught them not to say anything unless it was something good..

I am not immune to critical feedback....censorship....YES.

 

[dusty3030]

86 degrees here now....if I painted my toenails the I-scream would all melt first.....

Guess that rules out chocolates too, good luck.

 

[k0ua]

Wasn't me was it?

 

[texasjohn]

Well, instead of getting distraught about a non-response, you might have the charitable, perhaps even realistic idea that the PM just got lost/forgotten among the pressures of daily PM's, emails, chores, life with real people, appointments, etc......

and, even if that doesn't happen to be the answer, on the net, unlike in real life, a shot into the living room isn't life threatening and does not always require a response or defensive measures. It can be ignored.

In any case, how you feel about it is your choice.

 

[texasjohn]

So, I take it that censorship does not affect you (immunity) yet critical feedback does (susceptibility)

I am not immune to critical feedback....censorship....YES.

 

[cre10]

Wow does someone want some cheese with their whine?

 

[LD1]

perhaps even realistic idea that the PM just got lost/forgotten among the pressures of daily PM's, emails, chores, life with real people, appointments, etc......

I like this answer:thumbsup:

 

[Piston]

Maybe they don't like you?

 

[Zick]

Well I know what type of person does not impress me....