Good morning!!!!

[toppop52]

We've almost doubled that other, much sillier thread that this was started to beat. And they had a big head start! :laughing:

 

[sodamo]

One would have to consider the fine quality of the posters here

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[MossflowerWoods]

not that you need our advice, BUT
listen to her demands
make NO comment or response
then leave
dont give any clue and show no emotion
you will leave knowing a lot about what she is thinking
she will leave wondering what you are thinking
IF you can do, the ball will be more in your court.
JMHO - from someone who has been more reactionary than prudent.

David Sent from my iPad using TractorByNet

I tried... She conducted an interrogation she asked me well over a dozen questions merely to end with her plan remains the same. She is too busy to go to work, she expects me to keep sponging off buddies and living in basements, and why in heck did I restrict funds into the joint checking and put limits on her AmEx cards, and NO I cannot see my older girls, and NO there cannot be a time limit on their "healing".

Oh BTW, every time I dissagreed with her I was "continueing the abuse"...

Good Golly Miss Molly...

What a total waste of time this meeting was...
David

 

[sodamo]

I tried... She conducted an interrogation she asked me well over a dozen questions merely to end with her plan remains the same. She is too busy to go to work, she expects me to keep sponging off buddies and living in basements, and why in heck did I restrict funds into the joint checking and put limits on her AmEx cards, and NO I cannot see my older girls, and NO there cannot be a time limit on their "healing".

Oh BTW, every time I dissagreed with her I was "continueing the abuse"...

Good Golly Miss Molly...

What a total waste of time this meeting was...
David

My heart goes out to you, and your kids.
She played you
Might be time to seek out competent legal help to establish legal boundaries and then work within them.

David Sent from my iPad using TractorByNet

 

[Kyle_in_Tex]

I tried... She conducted an interrogation she asked me well over a dozen questions merely to end with her plan remains the same. She is too busy to go to work, she expects me to keep sponging off buddies and living in basements, and why in heck did I restrict funds into the joint checking and put limits on her AmEx cards, and NO I cannot see my older girls, and NO there cannot be a time limit on their "healing".

Oh BTW, every time I dissagreed with her I was "continueing the abuse"...

Good Golly Miss Molly...

What a total waste of time this meeting was...
David

Just make sure if you end up apart, that there is a clause that she can't move your kids more than X amount of miles from you without your permission. Can't count the number of dads that rarely get to see their kids because the wife moved them to Florida or somewhere far away to get away...yet they have to continue paying child support to the court or they go to jail.

 

[MossflowerWoods]

My heart goes out to you, and your kids.
She played you
Might be time to seek out competent legal help to establish legal boundaries and then work within them.

David Sent from my iPad using TractorByNet

I have the BEST lawyer according to the references I obtained from the Quantico Legal dept,,,

She is $$$ but good I hear...

David

 

[Jim Shooz]

Stump up with the $$$$ and go see her TODAY

No more Mr Nice Guy (and be ruthless)

Get on with the rest of your life.

 

[sodamo]

Stump up with the $$$$ and go see her TODAY

No more Mr Nice Guy (and be ruthless)

Get on with the rest of your life.

DITTO
You can pay now or pay forever.
Looks like your potential ex is establishing your ability to support her non working lifestyle.

I'd seriously think about what you are legally bound to give her, close out all joint accounts, and send her that amount on a scheduled basis by money order via certified mail. Send any extra you want to your kids in their name and keep account.

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[daugen]

65 degrees going up to 77 today, likely rain later and thunderstorms tonight.
Had a good day picking in the garden yesterday, the hot peppers are beginning to come in
fast and heavy. Tomatoes are slowing down, but plenty left. And we ate our first honeydew melon which
was very good. Lost most melons to slugs but some made it.

David/Mossflower: please ask your lawyer if you should be discussing any of this online. I think you are now to a point where you need to keep this offline or things could be used against you. Easy for your wife's lawyer to Google you...and everything you have written online. You have our support; I just worry if this posting is hazardous... (sorry)

finally took a pic of the motorhome, and preserved my first scrape to memory. Going back to the shop today to get satellite tv added, and I'll have their detail crew buff it out. Hoping to head off in the next few weeks to a rv park in the Poconos and try that for the first time.

 

[Larro Darro]

Morning all. Clear {no sun yet. What am I doing waking up this early?} 73 with 92% humidity. Forecast high of 90 with 50% of rain. It didn't rain yesterday. The first day in a while without it. But I had to run sprinklers on the watermelons. Got some mowing done late. Sliced first melon of the season last night. Small but good. Now I'm going to try to get back to sleep for a couple of hours.