I just got finished winterizing my place in Pennsylvania.
I use an air compressor to blow the water lines dry, which works really well. In addition, I've put a valve in the domestic water line at the bottom of my well pit so that when I blow the lines, the water has a good place to drain out.
RV (pink) anti-freeze in all the traps and toilets. Remember, that you only need a 50% mixture to protect you down to something like 20 below zero.
Don't forget things like the little sprayer next to the kitchen sink, the water lines in the frig, the water lines for your washing machine.
I forgot about the sink sprayer last year.... what a mess when I turned on the water last spring ... imagine that little hose flailing itself around and spraying water under the sink!!
I open up the washer and pour in a couple of cups of antifreeze. Then run the rinse cycle (with the water shut off).
We leave our refrigerator running (with the door closed) for almost 6 months and have never had a problem with mold.
I've winterized my pumphouse by building a small, but heavily insulated room for the water tank and softener. I keep a 1 foot electric baseboard running at 45 degrees to keep things from freezing up.