First of all, I can't imagine anyone who ever got sand in their shoes wanting to leave Florida. Maybe the reason is because you're not really in Florida; you're way up there in the cold, frozen North, in an area that probably should be part of Georgia. The best advice I can give you is to move South -- but no further South than a line running roughly along State Road 70. That's also roughly the line between growing zones 9 and 10, which means that you get the best of all sections of FLorida in landscaping. I'm in Port St. Lucie, now, and am really excited about getting to Okeechobee as soon as possible. Further West, consider Arcadia if you want it rural or Bradenton/Fort Myers if you want it Suburban. Anything North of State Road 60 (Vero Beach, Lake Wales, Tampa) is too cold.