We have a Kubota KX151 a 12,000 pound excavator older version of KX161, same machine new number. This machine is the one that gets the most hours usage, also have a 30,000 pound CAT excavator.
If the machine you are looking at does not have a HYDRAULIC THUMB go look at another machine, it makes a big big difference in productivity of the machine.
We have dug hard soil with it where we have had to scrape the earth to dig it, we use a narrow bucket, one of four for it to this.
The new machines have the high pressure hydraulic motors resulting in much more power at the bucket end of the machine compared to the KX-151.
The dozer balde is used all the time, it works really well.
Loads tandem dump trucks with no problem.
Plenty of power to dig trench's or holes.
Bucket Turns around in a circle on the tracks, big advantage in tight places.
With the tracks it goes anywhere vs wheels that get stuck (in clay, mud etc)
I have two loaders big CAT and small 3/4 yard so do not need a TLB bucket machine.
If I were you I would purchase the mini excavator not the TLB.
If you can get a zero tail swing machine all the better.
Of what make to purchase well its hands down a Kubota they are the best, just try various machines before you purchase one, you will see and feel the quality of Kubota. I have operated CAT mini and just prefer the Kubota.
Now lets see you have a 4,000 lbs trailer, a 12,000 lb mini hoe, a 6,000 pickup, thats pushing the 26,000 limit of a CDL, and that pickup might be too small to control the trailer and mini in an emergency on the highway.
16,000 lbs pushing a 6,000 pickup that does not sound too good.
Others are doing it, well they may have a 6,000 lb mini on the trailer not a 12,000 lb mini hoe.