Newbie here. I have been cleaning up my property with a Gator LD Grapple. I ran 3/8 hose from the back SVCs to the front of loader to quick disconnect the Pioneer connectors from the Grapple when not in use. I recently went to connect the Gator and had a male Pioneer that would not connect. I must have been under extreme pressure because the grapple was closed and the ball portion of the connector would not budge. I had to put it a vise and close down on it. When it released, hydrulic fluid exploded out and into my face! What is the correct way to relieve pressure off a male Pioneer?