With millings, it is best to spread them soon after they are produced. Just about anything will work, but a cheap and very effective tool is a 3-point back blade. The bucket will also work by backdragging but with that it is much harder to control the grade. After you have them spread, it is very important to compact them. If you can get a roller, thats great, but they are hard to come by for most folks. What worked very good for me was my pickup truck with a heavy camper on the back. It does not have duals so the rear tire loading is very high and it gave great compaction, probably better than a roller would have. The downside is, it takes many more passes than a roller since you only get the width of the tires. The town milled our road a few years ago and they gave me quite a few loads of the stuff. It makes a great diveway/parking lot. Compacted, it is almost like blacktop and it stays in place for snowplowing, unlike crushed gravel or concrete. When my driveways were stone, I had a heck of a lot of raking to do each spring to clear the adjacent grass. Thanks to the millings, those days are over.