Last year about this time I was thinking like you (the OP). I felt it would be very nice to have the boxblade controlled by the sefl-leveling rotary lazer I bought. Because I couldn't really pull it together technically, I started grading maunually, and then periodically checking the result with the lazer. It turned out to actually be much faster and easier to do it another way however, so I switched to this method:
I would do the best job I could visually, with the boxblade and loader (I was both cutting down into a hillside, and using the soil to build up other areas, to get a building level site). I'd work for a period, maybe an afternoon or a couple hours, then drag out the hose and sprinkler, turn it on the site, and let it run for the night. Next day turn it off and wait a couple hours, doing something else of course wheile waiting. After most of the water dried, low spots were the last to dry. This makes them easy to see. I'd get a bucket of dirt, fill the low spot, backdrag it, pack it in the low spot, and drive over it. Then either put the hose on again (if it was looking close), or start dirt moving with boxblade again (if it was still inches off level). And repeat, repeat, repeat. Many thin layers packed in with tractor wheels and watered into place with the hose sprinkler at night. In the end, I could get the site within a half inch with this method, which I felt was plenty close for rough grade before sand fill. And I knew it was compacted well with the water involved. Many thin layers, that is important.
Good luck.