art, you could be right about the generator; I don't recall how much use it'd had, but it was a single cylinder 2.5kw Onan, used primarily to run one 10k BTU air-conditioner and a coffee maker, and after changing to Exxon Dieselube 40W, never had another problem.
I grew up with a Dad who owned a Texaco service station, then sold it and bought a Mobil service station, and we also had an auto parts house, so I read lots of the trade journals, test reports, etc. but that was 40 years ago. Twenty years ago, part of my responsiblities was fleet management for a 300+ vehicle fleet, and I regularly attended the annual National Association of Fleet Managers (Law Enforcement Group) Conferences, read their journals, etc. So, like I said, I don't have any technical expertise and my experience is dated, but I've been using multiple viscosity oils, either 10W-30 or 10W-40 for 40 years, Quaker State for the past 20 years in gasoline engines, Delo 400 in diesel, and (knock on wood) I've never owned an oil burner and never had to pull the pan or heads on any vehicle I've owned. As to which is best; depends on which company's tests you read about. Lots of different opinions and I guess if there was agreement instead, there wouldn't be so many different products.
Anyway, I don't disagree with anything you've said. But of course, I'm just staying with what I know has worked well until I have strong evidence to the contrary.
Bird